Definitely wasn’t expecting this surprise. That is the only medication I was on. First time at 31, first cycle. Was suppose to ovulate the 28th (according to the Flo app and based on my “cycle”) but I also had sex the 29th (he didn’t finish in me this time & we probably did it 3 mins max, he was hardly up to). 3 failed iui, one sucessful ivf cycle now I’m 18 weeks. Even with perfect timing it’s normal to take up to a year to conceive. In fact, I had stopped taking my OPK’s CD 18 because I thought OI didn’t work and I needed a higher dose. If you just experienced a TFMR or are considering TFMR and need support, please join the wonderful group at r/tfmr_support. Reply reply MrsHarris2019 Doing it every other day gives you slightly lower chances, 22 percent. This community aims to provide support and science-backed guidance to couples who are trying to conceive. To conceive our current pregnancy that is 16 weeks, it took six months after the second loss. At what point did you go to fertility I was just wondering if there are any ladies who conceived at other times than mid-cycle. No faint line. 2 months after being on it for 11 years. Fwiw, I ovulate early, so my son was conceived on day 8 of my cycle, only 2 days after my period had ended. Yes, I have a 18 month old we conceived our second cycle of Letrozole/timed intercourse. 20 months. We only had sex once that month. tibtibs. Waited a bit for things to normalize, got pregnant again the next cycle trying and that ended in another mc at 4/5 weeks. We didn’t take any time off. 1- your surgeon was an asshole, that bedside manner is atrocious. A meta analysis looking at pregnancy after stopping birth control found that 83. Since it is a hormonal birth control returning to a normal cycle statically should be a few months or right away. Period returned about 2 weeks after removal, conceived ten cycles later. Just kidding. We did (which our RE cleared) and conceived the same cycle, but unfortunately it was ectopic. Went right back to trying, and on the second cycle, got pregnant in April 2014 and am 38 weeks tomorrow! I guess the 3rd time (out of a total of 4 cycles trying) was the charm for me. Don’t use any lube if you do not need it. To conceive our first, that ended in loss at 6 weeks, it took roughly 17 months. This community was created for those currently pregnant, or trying to get pregnant, or had a successful pregnancy following TFMR of wanted babies. And six more before we were pregnant. Crossing my fingers for you! Reply reply More replies. My advice would be to make sure you're both eating healthy, work out a little (pregnancy really takes it out of you, get strong) but don't obsess about cycle length and ovulation time abd so on. I just woke up and my first thought was "I'm pregnant". Sometimes you miss the peak LH, but if they get darker then lighter you can somewhat infer when things may have happened. We conceived right on my ovulation date, by accident, after a three month break. In November, we decided to start being careless and if I got pregnant it was totally fine. mommaover30. The first time you took provera what day was it in your cycle? I haven’t had regular cycles but I was supposed to start letrozole once I got my period. Reply reply. First took two cycles. _sam_iam. So, we made sure that encounters were spaced at least 48 hours apart (if you have a low sperm count and you're using up all your ammo before your fertile window, it's going to be a lot harder to get pregnant). Baby #1 was concieved 10 months after BC was removed The only thing was my cycle started out pretty short (23-25 days) and slowly got longer (28-30 days) over the 6ish months until I got pregnant. Call it intuition if you will. The ectopic wasn't due to the hysteroscopy, I most likely had a damaged tube from a previous ectopic on the same side. ago. Rapid weight loss releases estrogen supposedly. The cycle we were successful I stopped relying on my ovulation app (I think my 35 day cycle was messing it up) and focused on de-stressing and self care. 2- the recommendation is to wait a cycle for dating purposes and in case of any complications (like infection etc). No idea why it took a lot longer the second time, but I think that’s just normal. And hopefully conceive baby #2 sometime in 2024, but preferably early 2024. So in the case of an extremely early ovulation -- cycle day eight or so -- it would be possible to become pregnant from sex on, say, cycle day four, which Just curious what day(s) most people conceived on a regular 28-30 day cycle. I miscarried in December 2013 at 7 weeks, waited one cycle and got pregnant in February 2014 but miscarried again at about 6 weeks. 81% became pregnant within 6 months. You can have a highly regular cycle and still get pregnant on your period. I have hypothyroidism, so it’s very hard to track. I would estimate that the spotting and bleeding continued for 8 to 10 days. I did have a chemical pregnancy on cycle 4 when trying for our first. Rusty-Shackleford. Some people close to me: 12 months (no treatments, no issues noted by docs); 14 months (no treatments, no issues noted by docs); 13 months (tube blockage flushed at month 12, otherwise no issues noted by docs); 2 years (2 early term miscarriages, no issues notes by docs, conceived first round of IVF). Started Metformin 1000mg / day in August, not too conceive but to keep my sugar cravings in check. Overall, we got pregnant 3 times in 15 cycles, which is 20% and perfectly average. I had started vitamin D the month before, and started omega 3 and coq10 the month I conceieved thinking in a few months it might impact egg quality. Yes, I’ve had two pregnancies with Letrozole and TI. I also did a 14 day yoga challenge starting on CD1 because I'd been feeling stressed. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. 7. First baby- 2 cycles of let’s see what happens. If you roll a 1, you’re pregnant that cycle. The mucinex had caused me to bleed and spot alot out of nowhere days after ovulation. 3. If you get pregnant on your period, it’s because a new egg is released during or shortly after your period. Good luck! 5 cycles, but one that I’m fairly certain I didn’t ovulate due to being sick. And truthfully, you don't need to be having sex more often than every other day to get pregnant. 7 years with Mirena (2nd one in at year 5). Ovulation test the next day. Both times we did unmonitored cycles. Had a MMC in July 2020, conceived 6 months later and it ended in a chemical (Jan. Our providers told us that the only reason a lot of doctors recommend waiting a cycle is to make it easier for dating purposes, but the accuracy of early ultrasound makes that irrelevant. In one study I found, the highest chance of pregnancy was 1 day before O (Figure 2). I'm only 3 days after my period and my temps are already above 97. Calciferrrrrr. We had started appointments with the fertility clinic but were able to get there without medication. It took 12 months to conceive. The only way to really know when it’s going to happen is to check your cervical mucus, track your temperature throughout the month, or use ovulation prediction tests. They can be used to avoid pregnancy, conceive, or assess general health. [deleted] • 6 yr. 9 months! autumnjoy531. Didn’t have sex. I never went back on BC after the first pregnancy. Had my first last July and due with my second in December. My first pregnancy I woke up 2 days after the conception and just knew I was pregnant. My first was conceived the first cycle after I got my iud out. I had sex the 25th where he finished inside of me. Tuesday. Hopefully, you're timing intercourse correctly with LH strips and checking your body for signs that ovulation is imminent. No matter how much water you consume during the fertile window. I was hoping to give gender swaying a shot, but this turned out to be a surprise so I didn’t get a chance to 🥲 Hubby and I DTD only once during my fertile window and it was on O day (CD14) and based on what I’ve read according to the Shettles Method, this means Im trying to see what day you guys think I conceived. I don't think we would have gotten there on our own without these. Both very fit and athletic and probably eat the healthiest out of all our friends (none of this means anything for fertility). If I conceive this month, my first born will share my birth month :) I'm praying I also noticed my bbt got off to a higher start quicker than it did the last two cycles. Oh_shame. Usually day 16/17, this past cycle it was day 18. We have tried it all; healthy diet, no alcohol, ovulation strips, tracking my cycle and not tracking anything at all, praying to god, having sex every other day, and sometimes less than that. I’m 10dpo and it’s negative. I tried to plan a fun day out after an unsuccessful cycle, which did help to get my mind off it. 2021). 90 Day Fiance; Wife Swap; I’ve started trying to get pregnant. From personal experience, I conceived my older LCs (twins) immediately after my D&C from my first loss. ) Another study found that it was 2 days before O with the highest chance of pregnancy (check out Figure 1). 10 months after that, we conceived again with IVF, but it was another chemical pregnancy. In retrospect, I think my body was just taking longer to adjust coming off birth control (I was on a different form of BC prior to the first) Reply reply. Expand user menu At the time every unsuccessful month felt like a devastating kick in the guts; in retrospect four months is very quick. My OBGYN recommended sex every other day starting day 10 of your cycle. 8 cycles first pregnancy (ended in loss), 6 cycles second pregnancy (ended in loss), 1 cycle the third (currently 10 weeks pregnant). Err, in summary: IUD out on July 5th, successful (so far!) conception around the 22nd of September. 95% of couples conceived within 2 years. I had some light spotting, basically just some random brown in my discharge, for 4 days this past week, but haven’t had a period yet. But in order to be pregnant, the fertilized egg has to implant into your uterus, and that might happen as little as 30% of the time. This was followed by a heartbreaking early miscarriage, and surprise! I got pregnant again (and am currently!) the second cycle after the miscarriage. I would consider myself to have fairly regular cycles, did not come off a hormonal method of BC. However if you're like me you may have a short luteal phase, so you can get pregnant up to 11-12 days before your period arrives. 5mg CD12 there was no follicle growth, going in for another scan today to see if some is growing. Sometimes it can take a while. Pregnant first try, MMC at 9 weeks, pregnant again after 2 more cycles, MMC at 12 weeks followed by 8 weeks prolonged bleeding (D&c after 5 weeks for retained products) then three cycles for this current pregnancy - now 35 weeks! Reply reply. For baby #2, in very early thirties, it took 5 cycles, but we ended up with 2 chemical pregnancies and 1 miscarriage at 7 weeks. Now I’m in the 2WW and have had what is most likely implantation spotting. I was on the pill for about 14 years. It was the first cycle I actually tracked ovulation/fertile window. Tia :) It took me about 5 months to get pregnant after getting off but that is because I have really irregular periods so i never had a period ever since getting off of it 😂😂 i guess we got lucky because the first time I ovulated i got pregnant. Personally, it took us 21 months (15 cycles) to conceive, and only with medicinal intervention. I got pregnant again without getting my period between, but the positive test wasn't until 48 days after the miscarriage. The average is about 3 months, with well timed sex; the majority get pregnant within 6 months. Bubble-Guppy. I usually have a 31 day cycle. I take ovulation tests and track my cycle to pinpoint my fertile window. I'm wondering how long did it take for your cycle to come back regularly or how long did it take to conceive? I had Nexplanon before my first baby was born, but I don't remember how long until my cycle was regular. The Real Housewives of Atlanta The Bachelor Sister Wives 90 Day Fiance Wife Swap The Amazing Race Australia Married at First Sight The Real Housewives of Dallas My 600-lb Life Last Week Tonight with John Oliver It took four cycles/six rounds of meds and some of those cycles were very, very long because my body didn't consistently respond to the doses or progesterone. Open_Temperature_567. Wondering what cd others ovulated and whether or not you conceived. The first time it only took 2 cycles. 5 mg dose. I'm right in between you two with March 23rd at 11:30am. Another study from Germany in the same year had similar results. 45% of people got pregnant within 12 months of stopping Nexplanon. Age: 29. 5. Thank you! Queenof6planets. The LP should be 10 days or longer to be considered normal. Sex every single day for 5 straight days leading up to and including ovulation plus legs in the air. All in all, even tho we tried for 3 cycles it total it 8 months to get pregnant successfully . Be prepared for cycles to be different than the typical 28 day cycle coming off the pill. You could ask your doc to run a quick panel on you now or just know that trying now vs trying 2-3 years from could have have the same result. That pregnancy ended in miscarriage at 6 weeks. Same herealthough it is unromantic, it is kind of cool to be able to say you saw when you got pregnant and you saw your baby from the very beginning! He said the bleeding can happen after MC for a few cycles. Trying to conceive (TTC) can be an exciting time, but for some it may prove more difficult than expected. • 2 yr. I’m now cycle day 17 with zero signs of ovulation coming and I’m feeling anxious. I told my husband that it would most likely take me months, if not years to get pregnant. 3 months, but 2 cycles we actually had a shot due to me traveling without my husband during my fertile window 1 month. It may have accidentally caused us to conceive this month. At 16 months I switched from an OB to a RE and started letrozole 5mg. Usually negative one day, positive the next (for LH strips). I’m sure you’re familiar with the statistics, but there is only about a 20% chance of conception each month. I ovulated on CD 28! I had 2. 68% became pregnant within 3 months. I started seeing a new gyno who prescribed progesterone my last cycle. Award. After that, it took 6 months. All are 100% normal. FAM (Fertility Awareness Method- Secular) and NFP (Natural Family Planning- Religious Roots) both encompass Fertility Awareness Based Methods of Body Literacy. Researchers found the following pregnancy rates for couples trying to conceive: 38% became pregnant in the first month. Or check out r/TFABLinePorn because there are plenty of "cycle <10" posts on there. I was 30 when I started trying to conceive and it took us 7 cycles I think. Ive noticed I have a faster surge too, so I don’t have almost positives for days in advance. Laying on my back. I conceived my first at 33, it took 2 months, second one was conceived at 37 it took 4 months. Both times after coming off the depo shot. In one large study, the earliest day of ovulation observed was cycle day eight, so eight days after the start of bleeding. This is slightly lower than the 12 month pregnancy rate among people who didn’t use hormonal birth control (roughly 85-90%) but this small difference can be CPA_Murderino. It doesn't increase your chances. Second pregnancy: Got pregnant on cycle 2 post-miscarriage (age 33) and had an uneventful pregnancy. But once your cycle has returned you have the same odds as someone who was not on nexplanon. I got my positive test on day 41 of the second cycle. 2. She’s now 3. But it was on the 17th day of my cycle, and I have pretty regular cycles so I think that’s too late to conceive? The ironic thing is that I am getting positive pregnancy tests (very faint), but I had an IUD miscarriage about 8 weeks ago so these could possibly be leftover HCG from that. The month I conceived is the same month we agreed to take a break from trying because I was diagnosed with PCOS. 61 a couple days ago. Hoping I can post this here… 31F, 32M and TTC 3 years. :) Usually CD16-18, but in the last 18 cycles, it's ranged from CD13-26. With our first, it took me over six months to even start ovulating after going off bc. We got pregnant second cycle with my first and now are going on almost a year of trying for number 2. This subreddit is a space to discuss these methods, share charts, and support others on their body literacy journeys. Members Online Two days before period is supposed to start So a bit over 14 weeks when most people ovulate by 8 weeks post miscarriage. First pregnancy: Got pregnant on cycle 3 (right before my 33rd birthday), miscarried around 7 weeks on Christmas Eve (woof). It felt so good that I continued with it for another 14 days. 5 MG letrozole days 5-9 and I was expecting to ovulate earlier as well. Once again in the two week wait, 3 dpo. Second took 10 - I was getting worried at this point, especially as I’m a few years older (30 the first time, 34 the second). In late twenties, it took us 19 cycles. Hubby and I experienced a loss at 10 weeks in sept 22 and have been tracking and trying since November 22. Third pregnancy: Got pregnant on cycle 2 (age 35), miscarried at 10 weeks. Got pregnant the cycle immediately after and I’m now 20 weeks. He’s worn loose boxers, we bo Usually no. A Letrozole dose increase + additional doses mid-cycle + trigger shot + Metformin was ultimately what got me to ovulate and have success. I knew. Hang in there. 2021), and then conceived again immediately after the chemical (Feb. We took 8 cycles to conceive our first pregnancy (ended in loss), 6 to conceive our second pregnancy (ended in loss), and one cycle to conceive our third pregnancy (currently 22 weeks). Nexplanon shouldn’t affect your ability to get pregnant. Just my own experience, and I know it greatly differs person by person, but i expected it to take at least 6 months given I’m (now) 37, but we were blessed to get pregnant the very first month of trying. Think of a 4 sided die. First cycle I conceived however due to low progesterone I miscarried 4 days later. I finally conceived on our 10th cycle, after perfect timing, using ovulation tests, tracking my basal temperatures, even occasionally checking in on my cervical mucus. It took us 20 months total. I got pregnant on cycle 1, miscarried at 6-7 weeks, and then got pregnant again the very next cycle (ovulated 19 days after miscarrying) That ended up A calander can't tell you you're in your fertile period. My cycles were irregular and I still conceived in a normal amount of time. The reasoning for this is that some ladies need a little extra time for their bodies to regulate after BCPs. It took us 18 months to conceive the first and that ended up being a chemical pregnancy. Lots of people get pregnant in this situation, because that’s quite literally your fertile period in your cycle! That’s exactly when you’re supposed to be having sex when TTC. 14 cycles - started tracking cycle 3, got pregnant cycle 4 (ended in loss), got pregnant cycle 5 (ended in loss), got pregnant cycle 14 (currently 26+5) We got tons of testing done after our second loss and then once we hit a year of no successful pregnancies and everything came back normal (hell, my husband has “donor level” sperm) - best Preseed doesn’t help you get pregnant, it only is a safer lube for sperm if you do need to use lube. And I got fertile mucus that day and a pos. If your luteal phase is short, then yes, it could impact your chances of conceiving. Days 1-5: Period. Highest I have had this cycle was 0. Second time at 35, third cycle (but first two cycles we were doing all sorts of dumb timing and positions to try to have a girl). So it was 9 months between pregnancies, but it took almost two years to get the first pregnancy. They did dye scan to make sure all my plumbing was open and clear, and everything looked good. And, 2 days before O had a higher chance of pregnancy than O day itself! (They corrected for O-day measurement errors. Edit. While it generally doesn't take that long a fairly decent percentage of ladies will need at least a month or two. My first cycle was 38 days. 2 years trying on our own. If you don’t want to track, yes you can do every 2-3 days. However, six months in I did see a naturopath, started some recommended supplements, and started using Ovusense. It seems with the past couple cycles, ovulation has occurred within 15-19 CD. This was my first round of clomid and I ovulated on cycle day 11. Some people get pregnant right away and for others it takes more tries. You're both really young, so any doctor would tell you to try for at least 12 cycles, then go for a workup. FWIW, it took us 9 months to get pregnant the first time. Completely gave up hope and then unexpectedly got pregnant at 35. Example: Consider a regular 21 day cycle with 5 days of period bleeding, where ovulation happens on day 8. None of my other pregnancies have been that way. In my last 2 cycles my temps stayed in the 96 It is normal for the average couple to take up to a year of trying to conceive. Every body is different. For me it was day 10. When couples have sex just once per week, conception probability drops dramatically—to just 10 percent. 2nd cycle first time, 1st cycle second time. Not looking forward to TTC again, honestly. This is my second cycle taking letrozol, I take 5mg cd 3-7. 1 month. I am on cycle day 17 with no peak yet. The bleeding color and volume was consistent with implantation bleeding/spotting or mid cycle bleeding. Best of luck to you. But! My period isn’t even “late” yet, since it’s not expected until April 28th (10 whole days from now). " We had sex almost every day because it was enjoyable! But, also, I figured that the unfertilized egg life was between 12 and 24 hours (based on the internet ), so sex maybebabyg. 2 weeks on 2 metformin pills a day (I didn't get up to 4) and I started my cycle and I was like, textbook 28 day cycles. Sending you a big hug and good vibes. We started trying for our first when I was 24. I normally have long cycles (39-44). [deleted] • 2 yr. Pregnant after 1 cycle. Currently pregnant with my second after having sex 5 days before confirmed ovulation 🤷. Anyone get pregnant first round on clomid? 36 FTM here, got pregnant after 4 cycles. For some more anecdotal evidence: it took us 6 months to conceive our first after coming off BC (I was on the pill/nuvaring for over 12 years) and we conceived our second on the first try. It's very individual, I know so many people who easily got pregnant in mid- to -late 30's but also women that struggled in their early 30's. Basically, if you are tracking your ovulation and you have sex the day before you ovulate, your chance of conception is ~40% for women under the age of 35. General rule is 1 year of trying unless you have known reproductive issues (irregular cycles, PCOS, endometriosis,etc) or are over 35. I'm in my mid-20s and my husband's 30. 6. To conceive our second, that also ended in loss at 6 weeks, it took five months after the first loss. So about 9 months after stopping BCPs. What helped me is staying in bed for a few hours after the deed. Second baby- 3 years. By six months, 50% of couples will conceive, and by twelve months, it’s about 90%. Sending you baby dust! Reply reply. Pregnant third cycle after stopping BC (pill for 11 years). I have two other friends (both 29) who also recently conceived within 3 months of stopping either the pill or Mirena IUD. There’s only a max chance of pregnancy each cycle of 20-30%. Some people get pregnant the first month, but it’s unusual. A lot of things have to go right in order to conceive. Hoping this is our turn. So, did I just ovulate significantly earlier than usual, or was my period in March a weird fluke bleed? Google is no help since most calculations are using a 28 day cycle instead of 35 day. I wasnt trying to get pregnant, I had used protection. If you're unsure call your doctor but my understanding is that it's fine to try in the same cycle. Took 3 cycles, we miscarried, and a year later were still not pregnant again. Third cycle, I was afraid for my fertility so we had normal sex and BOOM, pregnant! And we're expecting a girl! Husband is 49. For the next pregnancy I conceived also the first cycle we tried but I miscarried then got pregnant with twins 2 weeks after! Before the next cycle had begun! We always timed the baby dance with my ovulation cycle which is very predictable so it was easier to conceive. I’m in my mid twenties. I was off birth control for 3 months before we started trying. He is scheduling to have SA done and we go back to start my testing in May. Sperm can live in the body anywhere from a few days to a week or so. Even your own body is going to be different each time you try. PigeonInACrown. Didnt expect to get pregnant. I didnt need a pregnancy test. fat_cat_lady. In-The-Cloud. Got pregnant first cycle, ended in MMC at 11. The second time, it took 6. Reply. Hi guys! Just wondering when the latest CD you have ovulated in a cycle. This month we DTD unprotected on CD 11…. 44M subscribers in the AskReddit community. First time we had success of cycle 3 and second time we had success on cycle 2. My cycles, for example, didn't really regulate till September 2015. 1. This cycle 7. Good luck! I’m pregnant with baby number 4 after 3 boys! I’ve been dreaming of having a girl and we are certain this is our last baby. Uhhlaneuh. After a few months I asked for intervention, I didn't want to wait 6 knowing that I already had something working against me. May have de-stressed too much because we conceived twins 😂 Glad to hear you've got a healthy little lady :-) I had a miscarriage in September 2012 at 9 weeks, didn't get pregnant again until June 2013. You only have a 20% chance each cycle even with PERFECT timing. •. I did get pregnant that following cycle though, my body has more obvious signs of ovulation than ever before. The fertile window is usually the five days before two weeks before your period (so it ends 14 days before your period arrives). We tried for 8, got officially diagnosed with pcos, did a whole bunch more testing (semen analysis, HSG, months of blood work, etc). 5 weeks. The 3 days prior to ovulation are the most likely to result in pregnancy. Struggled to conceive for about 13 years. If your cycle length was 24 days, but you ovulated on CD 12 and had a 12 day luteal phase, that is normal. If you miscarried naturally, you can treat it as cycle day 1. My first cycle taking it I peaked on cd 15 and ovulated cd 16. On the other hand, if you ovulated on CD 16 and only had an 8 day luteal phase, then that Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 4 votes and 12 comments threads, so you get more people who have been trying longer in other posts requesting help. r/AskReddit is the place to ask and answer thought-provoking questions. No matter where you are in your journey, this community aims to provide support and science-backed guidance for all actively trying to conceive. First cycle I used an app (which I've since learned are terrible at predicting ovulation times), 2nd cycle used OPK sticks, 3rd cycle I got lazy in tracking and missed it, 4th cycle the stars aligned. Preseed doesn’t help and may even hurt your chances. The others are correct though, even if you do everything right the chance of conception each month is about 30%. I'm not sure why I knew. • 7 days ago. wn lu mb fm kk zt wz fu qe nx